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Girlfriend Sex Talk: Unraveling the Myths about Women’s Desire

Lack of desire is the most common complaint that women have around their sex lives especially as our hormones change.  But blaming all of our low libido issues on hormones is only one small piece of the puzzle.  Women’s desire and arousal is complex, just like us, and the more we understand about the multi-facted ways in which our desire is impacted, the more ways we will find to improve our sex life. 

Join Xanet at The Hivery for a safe, comfortable conversation about intimacy. We know this topic can make many of us blush, but we want to provide support, tools, and expertise on the whole woman, and this is an important part of who we are. The door will be closed, you'll be in the Hivery zone of confidentiality, and you can participate as much or as little as you'd like. Xanet is a pro and knows how to facilitate women's groups on this conversation in a way that is helpful and comfortable.

Girlfriend Sex Talk: Unraveling the Myths about Women’s Desire
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About Xanet:

Xanet Pailet is a former health care attorney turned sex and intimacy coach in Mill Valley. She works with individuals and couples to empower them around their sexuality and strengthen relationship and intimacy skills.  She is particularly passionate about working with women who are sexually disconnected.  She helps them reclaim their pleasure and transform their relationships and their lives.

Xanet is a Somatica® Trained Sex and Intimacy Coach and a certified Sexological Body Worker with the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality and a certified Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner.  She is also a certified Tantra teacher with Charles Muir’s Source School of Tantra and is a Sky Dancing Tantra Teacher.  She serves on the faculty of the Institute for Ecstatic Living.  Connect with her at

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